Dealing with anxiety
Do you ever experience anxiety? When anxiety
appears, is it free-floating or is there a specific person,
place or thing that triggers its emergence? Anxiety can only
occur when you choose to leave the safe haven of the here and
now. Before long you may get caught up in your fertile
imagination and the catastrophic ideas it holds.
Staying in the now is paramount. Once you have
trained yourself to actually witness the anxiety and remain
objective to it, immediately its power over you will diminish.
Once you are able to free yourself of memories and
anticipation, what is left for you to fear?
Try to remain in the gap which occurs between
having your attention on one thought and yet not quite being
attached to the next one. Carefully step into this gap and
attempt to stay there for as long as possible!
Be ever aware that the past and future exist in
the mind only and you are able to observe your mind, therefore
you are not your mind. Reality exists only in the now.
When you awake from a nightmare you immediately
realize it was only a nightmare but while you are trapped
inside it seems very real indeed. Start seeing the nightmare
(or the dream for that matter) for what it is. Wake up!
The life energy that was previously used to
suppress and wage war against those persistent negative
thoughts and fears, can now be freed up to energize the true
self!
You must be disciplined enough (and it will
come with time and practice) to disassociate yourself from
destructive thoughts by using the observation technique
by
clicking here. While using the technique don't
fight or wrestle with your thoughts. Don't try to avoid
seeing them, rather attempt to view them in a dispassionate
manner.
Detachment will eventually lead to freedom from
that which you are presently a slave. No special knowledge or
advanced training is needed to accomplish this goal. You
already have all that you require within. Give up the futile
striving of the ego that continually fails you and return to
the inner self. There is really nothing else that needs to be
done.
You have already arrived; there is nowhere to
go. Although you exist as a person within the material world,
that which is within you (the observer) and witnesses all that
occurs, is infinite. Realize this and bring it to your morning
meditation and other moments of solitude. That is your true
self.
Pursue this diligently and with patience and
sincerity. Refuse to judge your progress, as that is evidence
that your ego is still involved. It has been estimated that we
have anywhere from sixty to seventy thousand thoughts daily.
The problem arises when it is discovered that these thoughts
are often of a self-defeating nature and we already thought
them yesterday, last week, last year, even in the last decade!
Begin to rid yourself of these often destructive, habitual
thoughts by practicing this technique.
When all the false ideas you still hold about
yourself are gradually given up, the true self will be
revealed. You can still continue with all your daily duties and
responsibilities while allowing yourself time to meditate and
get centered daily.
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